Joyce & Nick
Current Waiting Family
Dear Birth Mom,
Thank you for taking the time to consider us and look at our book! We truly cannot even begin to comprehend the difficulty of choosing the people who will parent your child. We hope that this small glimpse of our life and personalities will help make that decision a little bit easier. We welcome any questions and hope to have the opportunity to meet with you.
Let us start by telling you how we came to the decision to adopt. Rewind time about 9 years, Nick and I (Joyce) were still newlyweds and we made the decision that I was going to start school to become a nurse, and that we were going to wait to start a family until I was done. I just knew that I would be too distracted by littles to be able to focus enough on school to finish. Well here we are almost a decade later and I am an RN with an AA, ASN, and BSN! Who knew that it would take so long.
Now that we are ready to expand our family we have decided that we will become parents through adoption. Both of our lives have been touched by adoption and even while we were still dating we were happy to learn that we both wanted to adopt a child or two someday. We are ready to begin our family and that “someday” is here! We decided that rather than investigating infertility stuff after trying to get pregnant for a while, that we would instead direct our focus to having a child through adoption. We truly believe that God will put our book in the hands of the woman who is carrying the child that we are meant to adopt! It is hard to believe it, but we have been together for more than 10 years since we fell in love in our early 20’s and decided to get married. We first met at a swing dance through mutual friends who had just started dating each other. As we later learned, we were both relieved at the time to learn that the other already had a love interest and wasn’t looking for anything other than a friend. With that aside, we all enjoyed a long night of dancing; working up a big appetite. Late dinner naturally followed, and soon dancing then dinner became a weekly occurrence. One fateful night after several months went by, our friends were out of town so just the two of us decided to go together. At dinner we ended up talking for hours, sustained by free coffee refills until somewhere around 6am. We could not be separated after that night. After almost two years of dating, we got married in 2007 and purchased our home where we still live.
We are both artistic and musical, and dedicate a portion of our time, skills, and money to our church that does so much practical good in our community. We love spending time with family, friends, and our dog! Flopsy is teasingly referred to as our fur-child by many people who are close to us. We love taking her with us on adventures and playing with her at home.
Thank you for taking the time to look over our profile and considering us.
Joyce & Nick